What Keeps You Up?

July 31, 2008 · 10 comments

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I’ve always been a night owl.  I am the type of person that sends emails in the middle of the night.  It’s when it’s quiet.  It’s when the phone stops ringing, the IMs stop dinging, and the rest of the world (including my children) are sleeping peacefully.

Yes, there are a few of my friends that burn the midnight oil with me, but for the most part it’s just me, kicking butt and taking names.  It’s one of the reasons that I enjoy working from home.  While I am available during business hours and do quite a bit of work then, my hours are customizable.  Meaning, if I get distracted or need to take my car in for an oil change in the middle of the day, I can make those hours up at night.

More often than not, it’s because I’ve gotten distracted.

Before the option of working from home came about, I decided that I was best suited for a 3-11 job.  The problem with that is that (1) there aren’t any 3-11 desk jobs that pay the salary that I want need to make and (2) daycare is hard to come by during those hours.

So I’m grateful that I found something that works for me.

However, I know that when school starts back in 25 days (not that I am counting) I know that my days of staying up until 4am watching cooking demonstrations working need to come to an end.  I will have to arise from my comfy, cozy bed at 6:30am to get Samara out the door.  Matthew, since he’s now in middle school won’t leave until 8.. and don’t think that I’m not counting down until when Sam starts middle school so that I can sleep in an extra hour.

But I’m going to have to get up early.  As is Samara, who apparently got her night owl genes from me, because there are nights that she’s outlasted me.

Knowing this means that I have to adjust a few things.  While I do like to stay up late and work when it’s quiet, I also know that there are certain triggers that prolong my droopy eyes and the desire to fall into bed.

Surprisingly, it’s not caffiene.

For example, I cannot take a shower at night.  It wakes me up.  Therefore, this week, since we’ve not gotten home from soccer until 9 and because it’s so terribly hot, I’ve had to take showers at 9pm… at the earliest.  That’s only if I run in the house and into the bathroom faster than either of the kids.

I also cannot do anything that requires thinking.  So, if I know that I need to be in bed by 11, I can’t work a crossword puzzle, read a business book, brainstorm with a friend, etc.  If I do, my mind kicks into high gear and I can’t shut it off.  The flip side to that is that I DO get a lot of work done.  But I keep going and going like the freakin’ energizer bunny and it’s 4am and I have to get up at 6:30.

I’ve started to notice some patterns.  Like in the summer time, I don’t read as much.  It’s because I’m staying up late.  When school is in session, that is how I unwind.  I’ll go to bed at 11 and read until I can’t keep my eyes open.  I’ve been reading the same book for over a week now.  And I’ve read a grand total of two this summer… both of those while I was on vacation.  (When I was going to bed at 11 every night because I had to get up to go into the office.)

We go back to this routine in 25 days.  Ok, so I am counting.

I know that in the next two weeks, all three of us are going to have to start going to bed early so that we can get our bodies adjusted to our new schedules.  I was hoping that football and soccer starting this week would make us all so utterly exhausted but it hasn’t happened yet.

And it probably won’t.

So how do you handle the adjustment from summer to school year?  And are you like me?  Are there things that keep you up?

Until next time…

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1 Shane 07.31.08 at 9:43 pm

Believe it or not, I actually sleep more when school is in! I’m a major night owl too. So, I stay up way too late and then have to get up with the boys when they stumble out of bed around 8:30 a.m. However, when school starts back, I’ll keep my usual late hours…. get up at 6:45 a.m…. get them both off to school…. and then come back home and go back to bed! Yes, I know, shameless. Hey, it’s one of the perks of being a stay-at-home-mom, hate me. ;)

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2 melanie @ mel, a dramatic mommy 07.31.08 at 11:10 pm

Now that I’m a SAHM, my night owlishness has gotten even worse. I didn’t get out of bed until almost 10 today (well, I got breakfast for my son at 8:30 then got back in bed with ear open. He’s almost 6 BTW).

I do almost all my blogging and blog reading after everyone else goes to bed.

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3 tabitha 07.31.08 at 11:16 pm

I start getting everyone ready for bed earlier and actually make myself go to bed earlier also.

I try to stay off the computer later in the evening so I don’t get sucked into wasting time. I also try not to read an interesting book before bedtime because I know I won’t want to put it down.

So therefore, to go to sleep I try to read a more boring non-fiction book. You know the ones where you want the information but it’s just not as gripping as a good story.

4 Backpacking Dad 08.01.08 at 12:15 am

I’m a night owl whose daughter is training him to wake up at 6 for no reason (she’s still asleep) and stare at the Food Network.

I ought to be in bed by 11 every night. Instead, it’s more like midnight and then I can’t fall asleep until 1. If I’m on my own somewhere I’m up until 3 or 4 and I’ll sleep until 11. That’s my natural clock.

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5 Cathy | Mommy Motivation 08.01.08 at 7:38 am

Oh, I am the morning variety. Like, right now it is 5:00 AM. And I’m blog reading! Strange, I know. But I have a very VERY important role last night and this morning. I’m the cat’s midwife. Anyone want a kitten?

And sorry, I’m not giving out my tips on child-rearing any more. I gave some stupid advice awhile back – remember on room-cleaning? And then the next week, I had MUCH worse troubles of my own.

Me. I’m a slow learner. (and sleep deprived)

6 nicole 08.01.08 at 11:58 am

I read at night. I love my house when it is quiet and everyone is sleeping. I have to force myself to go to bed by 11:00, since the kids will be up and demanding things like food by 7:30 and the baby still wakes up at night. I just love books too much.

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7 Heather @ Not a DIY Life 08.01.08 at 5:22 pm

I am NOT a night owl, in fact, just the opposite. Once I wake up, I’m up, even if it’s 4 am. I might take a nap later, but I do my best thinking in the mornings.

When I was in college and grad school, my friends had to learn not to call me at 10:30 pm the night before a test. I would be sleeping. I would get up at 3 or 4 am to study, and I always offered to call them back at that time ;-)

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8 Boo 08.02.08 at 1:30 am

Wow, that sounds like our house. My 2 oldest are always still up when I drag myself to bed at 2! And my youngest is never far behind. If I can make a go of this bloggy business, hopefully I can stay at home again and work the hours my body wants me to!

9 Melissa 08.02.08 at 9:49 pm

Lots of things keep me up – I’m a worrywart, and I’m trying to get out of that habit!

Twenty five days? We start back this coming week! I haven’t been very successful in getting Anna Marie back into her routine, but I just never started sleeping any later when last year was over.

This week! AAAAAHHHH!

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10 saintnick 10.05.08 at 5:56 pm

Thanks for the advise, iam unbiased doing my xmas unbiased now, got any ideas for this year?

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